girls coats How to avoid the acquired characteristics being stupid

In the baby learning process because of certain reasons, will produce gradually to the study incompetent feeling, therefore and will lose the self-confidence. In other people's eye, will think that they more studied have been stupider, this kind of phenomenon is called the acquired characteristics to be stupid.

Neighbor young Zhao's daughter tinkling intelligent clever, over 3 year old of some will count, the plus-minus method, 5 years old to will not recite many Tang poems, will also say that the simple English,girls coats, the small mouth will be capable in argument, the violin will pull rhythmically. But after tinkling had some time ago gotten up the kindergarten kindergarten class for six and seven year olds, young Zhao is suddenly anxious, said beforehand intelligent tinkling changed has been stupid, the very simple thing like traced red,kids toys, jumped the group dance to study very much slowly.

Why can like this? Originally on the child the kindergarten class for six and seven year olds, must follow the dissimilar study pattern, will also receive teacher and little friend's influence, actually, baby's cognition characteristic, child, although can depend on the parrot school mechanical memorizing to get down, often has not promoted the intelligence development, instead will bring the very tremendous pressure to the child, dampened self-confidently.

Excessively high study goal. The study goal is excessively high, the child finished with every effort always also cannot achieve; Or the study partial contents are difficult, to surpass the child existing understanding ability,toddler toys, then child's feeling can be getting more and more bad, did not need others saying that oneself will think oneself was very stupid.

Excessively many negative suggestions. When the child comes across the setback, teacher said stupidly, the going home parents also said really stupidly. The child has accepted so many stupid information, receives the negative suggestion, how can not believe itself stupidly?

Prevents the child acquired characteristics to be stupid, must teach the child the face failure. When the child is sad for the defeat, the parents must let the child understand, brave, the intelligent person should from the defeat the learn lesson, continues to try hard. Must lower the expected value, reduces child's pressure. Lets the child do as far as possible is interested the matter, the stimulation, protects, enhances the child to the study interest.